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Jason Ching Yuen Siu
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Recently, I stumbled upon YouTube discussion on the ongoing chip competition between China and the U.S.
At first glance, it seemed like just another tech panel.
But as I listened in, I noticed something different.
The topic wasn’t new — semiconductors, Huawei, U.S. sanctions — we’ve all heard those headlines.
But the conversation felt engaging and deep.
I wasn’t just listening to opinions. I was learning.
Every question the host asked felt:
  • Purposeful — not random or shallow
  • Grounded — linked to facts, trends, or stakes
  • Smooth — flowing naturally without awkward transitions
  • Inviting — encouraging the guests to speak their mind, not defend their position
And that made me wonder:
What made this conversation feel so “Sharp and right”?
How was the host asking questions so effectively?
How did the the guests were so spoken with clarity and depth?
And most importantly — the conversation flowed naturally without ever feeling forced or random.
Could I learn and apply that skill in my own thinking?
So I decided to break it down from first principles.
Not just what was asked, but how and why each question worked. I studied the host’s questioning style, and reverse-engineered a mental model for asking eloquent, insightful questions — below:
 

How to ask insightful questions with purpose and flow

Step
How
Why (Strategic Purpose)
Real Example
Assumption + Context
1. Hook
Start with a topical or emotional trigger
Capture attention and relevance
“近來有傳聞,華為已經突破了…”
Everyone’s heard the rumour, few understand it deeply
2. Frame
Ask about big-picture stakes
Position the topic in a broader context
“和美國的距離有沒有拉近?”
Audience cares about geopolitical rivalry
3. Clarify
Press vague claims into concrete answers
Avoid fluff and gain specific insight
“具體說有多近呢?”
Experts often dodge specifics unless asked
4. Disarm
Use humble tone or self-deprecation
Make guests feel safe to explain more
“以我僅有的科技知識理解…”
Humility encourages the guest to teach instead of defend
5. Probe
Ask “how” something happened
Reveal the mechanism behind outcomes
“中國用什麼方法可以突破這些障礙?”
Audience values how, not just what
6. Predict
Ask about future timelines
Tap into uncertainty and strategic thinking
“究竟多久有機會會追到美國?”
People want to know what’s next
7. Humanise
Highlight people and talent involved
Build connection and relatability
“美國工程師很多是中國人…”
Stories make data relatable
8. Simplify
Offer binary or structured options
Help guests give crisp, digestible answers
“技術高?還是成本低?”
Forces a clear response from multiple variables
9. Stress-Test
Ask hypothetical or extreme cases
Reveal weakness or resilience
“如果美國繼續限制,中國頂得住嗎?”
Pressure questions reveal underlying belief
10. Solve
Ask about solutions or alternatives
Show a way forward, not just problems
“有什麼公司可以替代台積電?”
Hope is just as powerful as critique
11. Close
Ask a summary or wrap-up check-in
Create reflection or agreement
“你認為中國搞定了嗎?”
Brings closure and solidifies the message
 
They guide the conversation, sharpen ideas, and invite real thinking.
They’re not just about getting answers — they’re about opening up insight.
 

Final Thought

Great questions don’t sound smart — they make others smarter.
 
What I learned from this isn’t just about tech or geopolitics.
It’s about thinking like a great interviewer with a clear thinking process:
  • Understand what the audience wants to know but doesn’t know how to ask
  • Build emotional and logical connection
  • Use structure to guide depth and direction
 
 

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